Looks like a good pump. As you can see the shaft power goes down as the flow rate drops with more restriction. It is going to try to pump 450 GPM with no more head than you have. All you really need is an orifice plate with the right size hole for 350 GPM. I can do the calculations for that, but it is not easy, Even if you get all the data correct to make the orifice plate the right size, it is easy to miss something. Also, sometimes things change over time. A valve is a variable orifice. You can just close the valve until yo get the 350 GPM you want, even if things change over time. No calculations needed. It doesn't get much simpler than just a valve. As for tamper proof, just taking the handle off the valve after it is set is usually enough. But if you are afraid someone will use a wrench to mess with the valve, hack saw off the stem where the handle fits. Lol!