Replace the entire toilet and stop wasting time. I installed a BRAND NEW toilet last September and it had very slight leakage. Like you I was discovering wetness under the tank with my hands only. Left for a while it would drip. Wasted time and money with new bolts, gaskets etc. When I took the tank off the base and examined it closely outside in the sun it had a hairline crack. I went back bought the same toilet at the same store swapped the tanks and sure enough no more leaking…
He hasn’t replaced everything.
He didn’t replace the flushvalve...
So the way I see it, it’s probably the flushvalve.
I get calls like this on a regular basis......” I’ve done EVERYTHING “
But in reality it’s just a simple fix, and they haven’t done “ everything “.