SHR and Mr. David:
Thanks for your replies and help. I am going to try a street wye and 45 or a combo without a hub and see if they fit in my space. I really do not want to deal with cutting back the cast iron - it might not look like it, but it is already under the wall and if something went wrong in cutting it back, I would be looking at excavation, etc. I just don't want the risk.
If the street wye or combo don't fit, I think I will eliminate the floor drain and just use a long sweep 90 - I know that fits.
If the trap stays, I think I will keep it unvented - I have watched it for a couple of days and even with all water on, it does not suction out the trap water at all, nor does it seem to have any issue with taking all the water I can throw into it and not creating suction. It is 2" pvc on the trap.
Regarding the coupler - lots of different opinions on this, but I think I will just stay with what I have if possible - it was given to me by the plumber who punched a hole through my CI when he was snaking the drain - he said that is what folks around here use.
Thanks for all the help - comments and opinions welcome!